The Good, The Sad, and The Rest…
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What can I say.. it’s been a week… I seem to be saying that a lot lately, and I wonder if we will get to the stage where I won’t look back at the week and heave a big sigh…
The Good
On Tuesday I called our insurance company and told them that the plumber was not able to come and fix the pipes until Friday, and asked them what the go was with temporary accommodation.
When it broke the first time and DH put in the temporary fix, we still were able to have some water come through the pipes. This time neither DH or the plumber could fix it, so we had no water coming out of any of the taps inside… only one outside where we could haul some drinking water and water to pour into the toilet…
So we decided it was time to take up the temporary accommodation offer.
This is the first time we have ever tried to claim or do anything with insurance and they were quite good. We got permission for three nights accommodation in a two bedroom apartment in town …
DS still had to go to uni, and DH to work, but it was nice to be able to have showers – and I caught up on all of our washing 🙂
Yesterday the plumbers came and fixed everything up…. I can now put away the jerry cans in the kitchen, catch up on all the dishes, mop the floors.. and of course we can use the shower again!
Indoor plumbing really is amazing!
The Sad
On Thursday evening I got a call to tell me that my other mother, who was my aunt, had passed away peacefully in her sleep.
I last visited her in her home in Germany at the end of 2015…. and last saw her in Holland at the end of 2017. We had planned to make another trip to Germany at the beginning of 2020, but then the borders closed due to Covid.
I grew up in Indonesia, and went to an American School. In those days, it was only a primary school, and when we were 12, most of us went off to boarding school. I, however, went to live with my aunt and uncle in Holland. I became part of the family and lived with them for 5 years in Holland, and then 2 years in India.
Even after I left to go to Australia, my aunt and uncle were still second parents to me, and grandparents to my children.
I consider myself blessed to have had two mothers… and two fathers. But now I have lost one of them.
It was a sudden passing. She was not sick, we had no warning.. she was just gone.
For her it was the best way to go. She loved Jesus and knew where she was going. For us… well.. we are all still processing our loss.
I feel like it is made harder because I am not there – not in Germany to go to the funeral and be with the rest of the family. It just feels surreal.
The Rest
I got a few parcels in the mail while I was away – one was from Accuquilt with some new dies that I hope to use to make some H2H quilts with….haven’t taken photos of them yet, will try to do that next week. The other had some rulers and a bit of fabric to make a new cover for my ironing board. Again, I will take photos and post next week.
Well that is more than enough for one post…. I’ve pulled out some albums and am looking at memories of times spent with my other mother.. I am thankful for each one of them.
Hold your dear ones tight and have a lovely weekend,
I am so sorry for your loss, I lost a dear friend just recently and I was already devastated. Losing a mother is a whole other thing. Keep your head up, but let the feelings come as they want and need to. You will meet again!
I’m so sorry for your loss, Joy. It is never easy but definitely harder since you can’t be with your family. Hugs and prayers for you all. I am grateful you still have the rest of your parents. It’s good to remember the good times you had with them growing up. I pray that brings you some comfort as you navigate this time in your life.
I am happy that you finally got your plumbing problem fixed and can enjoy your home again. Indoor plumbing is definitely amazing!
Prayers for you for comfort and strength. Sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry Joy! Your aunt looks like a lovely person, and how lucky you were to have two mothers. I know that is the best way to pass, but yes it is hard on those left behind, especially when it is sudden like that.
I’m glad your plumbing issues are fixed!
Have a great weekend!
What a week, indeed! I’m glad your plumbing is fixed, but sorry for your loss. The reunion with her at the Lord’s throne will be sweet.
I’m so sorry for your loss. These losses just suck. But are one lucky woman to have had two moms and dads – and to have lived all over. What great memories you must have!
And I’m so relieved that your plumbing is repaired. What an ordeal!
Michelle
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So sorry to hear about your aunt. It is always hard to lose a loved one and especially when you cannot be there with the rest of the family. You have the memories always.
Glad to hear that your plumbing issues have been resolved and you are back in your own home again.
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How sweet that God blessed you with a second set of parents–and how awesome that your second mother will be in heaven–and that you can take comfort in that knowledge–
also am so glad that you finally got your water woes fixed–
hugs, diane
firstly thankgoodness the plumbing is fixed……….
So sorry to hear the sudden passing of your other mother……..complete shock for everyone but no suffering for her…….you have lived and been to so many places…….I do hope you ahve written some of your life story……..sending bug hugs and pull out those pics and enjoy the wonderful memories……..
So sorry for your loss. My condolences to the family.. I’m glad you finally have your plumbing fixed. Hugs, xx
Hard when special people go – thoughts with you. So glad the plumbing is finally sorted…
Hugz
My deepest sympathy to you and your family xx
You’ve had an amazing life–sounds like your Aunt was a big part of it. My condolences to you at her passing. I’m glad you have your water problems solved–no fun! The little apt looks cute!
Sorry to hear about your loss & our thoughts are with you. Am glad the plumbing is being sorted, so that you can start getting back to your projects & life in general. Talk when we get back. Raining & has been a strange journey so far. Take care and hugs.
I’m so sorry about your loss – sad as it is, we would all like to go the way she did.
On a brighter note, very glad to hear you were able to get your water repaired. Interesting to know that insurance companies are willing to give you alternate accommodations.
You certainly have had a roller coaster ride this past week. May you find peace and comfort in your sudden loss.
Joy my heart aches thinking of such a loss, especially since you can’t be with your family for the service, comfort and sharing memories . My condolences to you and your family. On the other hand your temporary apartment was cute and now you are back home with working plumbing.
So Sorry for your loss, but we know she will forever be in your heart.
I’m sorry to hear of your loss, Joy. I remember you visiting Holland (and your daughter studying) a couple of years ago but did not realise you had such a history there. Glad to hear your plumbing is sorted now!